According to Jacob Lucas, a dating coach based in the UK, men often use disingenuous comments when dating to give false hope of a relationship. Jacob has helped millions of people improve their love lives through his real-life methods and shares dating advice with his over 750,000 followers on TikTok. In a recent video, Jacob revealed three lies men tell women when they want to keep them on the hook.
In the video, Jacob says he is a professional dating coach and that the first lie men often use is when they are unwilling to label the relationship even after seeing each other for a while. If a man says he is not ready for a relationship after dating a woman for more than three months, it is a lie, according to Jacob. He says that if the man were dating his celebrity crush for three months and she asked him to be in a relationship, he wouldn't say no. Jacob advises women to leave a man who can't decide whether he wants to be with them after three months because they deserve better.
The second lie Jacob shares is when a man says he loves a woman but won't commit to her. Jacob believes that if a man truly loves a woman, he will commit to her, and saying "I love you" without any follow-through is just giving false hope and stringing her along.
Lastly, Jacob says men who want to string women along will tell them that it's not the right time to be in a relationship. Women may be giving men boyfriend privileges without the commitment, and Jacob says this is unacceptable.
While some commenters on the video suggest that these phrases may be used sincerely, many agree with Jacob's advice and say that men may use them to get away with bad behavior. One commenter even adds her own favorite lie men use: "I don't like to put a label on things."
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