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Getting random DMs from someone calling you beautiful? Chances are, that's an Instagram romance scammer.
Who are romance scammers? They're people on Instagram who make fake profiles to trick people into relationships. They start by flattering their targets, chatting with them daily, and slowly building an emotional bond.
"They usually start by gaining your trust and asking for small amounts of money, like for food. As they build trust, they ramp up their demands, claiming they need cash to save their job or cover urgent expenses," says Wilda Harrison, a relationship coach.
They keep pushing until they've drained your account.
5 Signs of A Romance Scammer
To protect yourself from falling prey to an Instagram romance scam, watch out for the following warning signs:
1. They Ask for Personal Information
Romance scammers often use fake emergencies — like job losses or medical crises — to trick people into sharing sensitive info. They'll ask for bank details, personal info, fake investments, or your social media under the guise of preventing hacking.
2. Rapid Start
Saying they're in love with you after just a few weeks? Romance scammers use this trick to play on your emotions and get your money. They rush things to keep you from doubting their intentions.
3. They Refuse to Make a Video Call
Scammers often steal pics from social media to fake profiles. Before getting serious, try to meet in person or at least do a video call. If they always dodge video chats or act shady during them, it's probably a scam
4. They Refuse to Meet in Person
Romance scammers usually fake profiles and claim they're from a different country, often Nigeria. When you ask to meet up, they come up with excuses like work issues, lack of money, or emergencies. If they keep dodging plans to meet, they're probably just trying to keep you hooked in their scam.
5. They Claim to Be Military or Oil Rig Worker
Scammers will pretend to be military personnel or oil rig workers to avoid video chats or meetings. They use these excuses to trick people into sending money for fake reasons like medical bills or travel costs. Real military or oil rig jobs wouldn’t make employees pay their own way home or cover other expenses.
The Bottom Line
If you're looking for love online, you need to take precautions to avoid getting your heart broken or losing money. iFindCheaters gives you an easy and confidential way to find out if your partner is hiding anything, making sure that your relationship is built on trust and honesty.
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