There are a lot more straight women cheating now than there were in the 1990s, a new study says. In fact, the number of women cheating has increased by an amazing 40%.
Yes, tech has made it easier for both men and women, but there's a deeper reason for this shift: women are no longer content with "settling" on their partners to fulfil their needs.
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Wilda Harrison, a relationship psychologist, explains: "Cheating is all about your choice. Women have become more aware of alternative relationships and are now demanding to have all their needs met. All these factors simply lead to a reduction in the gender gap."
Statistics
Studies reveal that approximately 19.2% of women surveyed have cheated in their current relationships. Shockingly, more than 50% of women admit to cheating on their partners.
Additionally, data from Ashley Madison shows that: women in their 30s are just as likely as men to seek such relationships; over 60% of affairs start in the workplace.
Red Flags
You can tell your partner is cheating on you by changes in their appearance or routine, but there are also less obvious signs that they may be cheating on you:
1. She's Concerned About Your Fidelity
Cheaters often worry that their partners may be unfaithful as well. If your partner suddenly becomes fixated on your faithfulness, it could be a sign of projection.
2. Risky Behavior
Engaging in an affair can make individuals feel young and reckless, leading to increased risky behaviors, such as excessive alcohol consumption and unsafe sex.
3. Excessive Texting and Social Media Use
If she seems glued to her phone, texting more frequently, or spending excessive time on social media (including hidden profiles), it could be an indicator of secretive communication.
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4. Downplaying Infidelity
Guilty consciences sometimes lead cheaters to normalize their behavior, believing that everyone would do the same given the chance.
5. Shift in Attitude
A sudden increase in critical remarks may be a result of comparing you to someone else who meets her standards. Conversely, a lack of complaints about previous irritants could also raise concern.
6. Creating Timestamps
Setting up routines, especially in communication patterns, might be an attempt to cover tracks and conceal changes in day-to-day behavior.
7. Changing Entertainment Preferences
If she starts avoiding movies or stories about infidelity that she once enjoyed, it might be a sign that such themes hit too close to home.
Taking Action
If you suspect infidelity, there are steps you can take to gain peace of mind or initiate a conversation:
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Perform a Background Checkup
You can get verification of the personal information your partner has given you. Search by name, by phone number, by email or physical address.
Have an Open Conversation
Address the issue with your partner and ask how she's feeling.
Look for ways to get emotionally close to each other again.
"I know, cheating can be hard to deal with, but knowing the signs and talking about them is just your path to healing and resolution," says Wilda Harrison.
