RELATED: THE NEW YORK CITY DATING SCENE: 8 ESSENTIAL TIPS
Okay, dating in NYC is really tough. Just everybody knows it! But what if we'd say that you can really stand out? As a single guy in a city full of driven, successful women, you just need to bring your A-game.
And a fun way to make a great impression is just asking funny first date questions! They'd only get her laughing but also help you get to know her better.
Ghosting and flaking are way too normal in this city's dating scene. If you’ve ever been stood up or left hanging at a bar, don’t sweat it. Just laugh it off — it might even be a good convo starter since your date probably has her own dating disasters to share.
"How Far Would You Go on a First Date?"
Before a sip of that pricey New York City beer reaches your lips, clarify that you're referring to the subway system. Newcomers may be eager to explore all five boroughs, but experienced daters know the importance of knowing where their romantic journey ends. This question will help you gauge if your date's geographical range aligns with yours.
"Which Movie Cliché Best Describes You?"
In a city filled with dreamers and aspiring individuals, everyone seems to be playing a role or following a script straight out of a movie. Ask your date which movie cliché resonates with her the most.
"If You Had $1 Million, Where Would You Rent a One-Bedroom Apartment?"
Ah, rent prices in New York City! It's quite a frequent topic, even on dates. The reality is that discussing prices and real estate is inevitable. A connection through shared experiences and realities of living in the city! What could be better?
"Show Me You Are a New Yorker Without Telling Me You Are!"
You know, being a real New Yorker isn’t just about being born here. It’s about blending in with the culture and owning those classic New Yorker traits. This sparks all kinds of fun convos — like favorite sports teams, borough beefs, or the love/hate thing with 'Friends.'
"What's the Most Touristy Thing You've Done in NYC?"
A nice one! Like, having a sense of humor in a city that loves teasing tourists. Sharing stories about Times Square mishaps, visiting iconic landmarks, or falling for classic scams can create a lighthearted and relatable connection between you and your date.
"Would You Rather..."
Engage in a playful game of "Would You Rather" with a New York twist. Ask questions that require your date to make tough choices, revealing her preferences and boundaries. It's just a fun way to know each other better.
The Bottom Line
Things are going great and you're laughing a lot? That's nice! But ghosting is still super common in the NYC dating scene.
"If something feels off, trust your gut and do a quick background check to make sure they're legit," notes Wilda Harrison, a relationship coach.
Tools like Listing Locator can help validate important details and give you peace of mind.
